Lada on Instagram: "Ever felt a guy suddenly go cold? It's a confusing and painful experience. Often, it's not about you, but about his own internal world. Understanding the "why" can bring so much clarity. Here are 10 common reasons men pull away: 1. He's Stressed About Other Things. Men often process stress by withdrawing. Unlike women who might want to talk it out, many men retreat into their "cave" to solve problems related to work, finances, or family on their own. 2. Fear of Commitment. Th