The first time we say no to someone is often when we find out how they actually act when it comes to respecting the boundaries of others. This is one of those moments that tells you something ...
How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I (39-year-old cis female) have discovered in the last year or so that I ...